Your Result: 26 points. If your score was made up mostly of "b"s and "c"s then you are in a workable relationship but one that lacks real connection. You must work to open up communication and start sharing more in one another's life. In The New Rules of Marriage, Chapter Seven's discussion on how to listen and respond generously will be of particular interest to you. If your score was all over the map, then you are in a volatile relationship and you must learn the skills of mature intimacy - all five winning strategies would be important to master. If you don't see much progress, consider a couple's therapist.
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Terry Real is an internationally recognized Family Therapist, Speaker and Author. Terry founded the Relational Life Institute (RLI), offering workshops for couples, individuals and parents around the country along with a professional training program for clinicians wanting to learn his RLT (Relational Life Therapy) methodology. A family therapist and teacher . . . more
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